If you and your partner were in a relationship and he dumps you, we will discuss some of the reasons why he might come back. It’s up to you to brace yourself and decide whether to say no or repeat the same process all over again.
You’re not some kind of trashcan where someone can dump their rubbish and later come back for it. If a man values you, he will want to work things out with you. But in a case where he left you shattered and only decides to come back after noticing some changes in your life, that definitely spells bad intentions.
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Why will he come back after he dumped you?
1. You started glowing up
When he notices that you’ve started glowing after the breakup, his ego might be hurt because you didn’t remain in the position he thought you’d be—”sad, miserable, tattered, and drained.” He will find a way to come back and try to remain in control of your life. At this point, it’s up to you to decide not to let him in.
If you are now living freely without him dictating your life, I would advise you to keep glowing and not let him have the last laugh. Breaking you emotionally the first time may not have worked as he planned, which is why life has given you a second chance.
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2. You’re doing better without him and beginning to move on
A man might come back after dumping you because he fears that you’ll move on and begin to do better without him. Most men mentally keep track of the women they have dated, and if he left you at one point and notices you’re beginning to get your life together, his next move might be to drag you back. He would want to keep you in a place where you’d feel that he’s all you’ve got and that you can’t do without him.
Removing yourself from that list should be your priority, and how you do this is by not giving him that chance anymore.
3. His next girl wasn’t what he expected
You two probably had an amazing relationship going on, but all of a sudden, he began to give you attitude. Before you’d notice what’s going on, he has dumped you for another girl. In this case, the simplest reason why such a man would come back is that the girl he left you for wasn’t as good to him as you were.
Men know a good woman, and if he doesn’t cherish you enough to keep you in his life, don’t accept him back when the next girl disappoints him.
Reassure yourself that you’ll find a better person. Build your self-esteem and be courageous enough to say no. If you’re having issues in your relationship, the best thing a man who loves you would do is try to work things out—not leave you for another woman, only to come back when there’s chaos in his other relationships.
Wrapping it up – Have you had any experiences related to this topic? I’d love to hear your thoughts and your story. If you’re currently in this situation and need someone to talk to, feel free to reach out via email for a one-on-one chat.
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